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Nesting

As a REALTOR I have watched women “nest” in their home. I, too, am a strong nester. Certainly my home reflects who I am. Having recently cared for two granddaughters in our home, my nesting was challenged. They nested. In the beginning of their stay I discussed which things could stay in their new bedrooms. Didn’t she like the pretty chair? Or the picture on the wall? No, of course not. Out came the can of paint and brown pyramids covered a wall. New shelving for puzzles and building projects. Legos, K’nex, etc. The other bedroom was brilliant pink and made the new occupant happy. However, once every plush animal was invited in, the original furnishings took second place. Now these special girls have returned to their parents.

I laughed as I cleaned and organized. Candy wrappers tucked under the bed where no one was supposed to ever see them, lost puzzle pieces in the other room, and finally a good look at the floor. Furniture returned to its’ original position, all the beds made with clean bedding and pillows stacked in just the right order. Framed pictures now replace the posters. Painting will commence soon. Ah…..nesting. It’s what we do best!

A letter to four granddaughters

Grandmothers almost always have advice to pass on to their grandchildren. I am no different. God has blessed me with four granddaughters. Having raised two sons, the opportunity to buy girlie things made me very happy. Not only do I have advice for each one of them individually, this will be my letter to them as a whole. They are of a generation so very different from my own. Society has put temptations in front of them that their Grandfather and I had never even thought about.

It is my desire that each finds joy. I want them to reach a potential that grants them satisfaction within. Peace. As I watch each girl grow and develop I can, because of a certain level of maturity, see what lies ahead. Our 16 year old is autistic and could easily be called “computer brain”. We are daily amazed at her memory for things scientific or relating to math. The 13 year old has a learning delay caused by a unique brain development before her birth. Bubbly, happy and full of joy. And then there are the two younger girls: the 7 year old is probably the most compassionate and loving child I have ever known. She is extremely insightful into human nature. Not enough can be said about our 4 year old charmer. Perhaps grandparents always favor the youngest and we would not want to be accused of favoritism—but this child is exceptional. A real handful for her parents. She will make us all proud someday!! I have nicknamed them “Sweetheart”, “Sunshine”, “Angel” and our little “Busy Bee”!

Dear beautiful children: know that your Grandmother is proud of you. God has made each of you unique and special. I love you with each breath I take.  My greatest prayer is that you will have a personal relationship with your Heavenly Father. This will guide your life. I have prayed for each of you and have the faith to believe that you will know Him.